Recovering from the flu is never easy, especially when you have little ones to take care of. Recently, I found myself bedridden with a nasty flu, and during that time, my kids’ screen time increased significantly. It was a lifesaver at the moment, but I soon noticed a change in their behaviour. They became more impatient, less polite, and generally more demanding.

Here’s how I realised what was happening and the steps I took to turn things around:

Realising the Issue

During my recovery, I noticed my kids were getting increasingly bratty. Simple requests were met with grumbles and demands. I initially thought it was just a phase due to the disruption of our usual routine, but it became clear that the extended screen time was affecting their behaviour.

1. Gradually Reduce Screen Time

Instead of cutting off screens abruptly, I gradually reduced their screen time. This helped avoid a meltdown and made the transition smoother.

2. Set Clear Limits

I established clear rules for screen time. We created a schedule that included specific times for watching TV or using tablets, balanced with time for other activities.

3. Introduce Engaging Alternatives

I filled our days with engaging activities that didn’t involve screens. Crafts, puzzles, outdoor play, and reading became our go-to activities.

4. Positive Reinforcement:

I praised polite behaviour and good manners, which encouraged my kids to continue being respectful and courteous.

5. Family Time

We spent more time together as a family, playing games, cooking, and just talking. This helped reinforce positive behaviour and brought us closer together.

Have you ever noticed a change in your children’s behaviour due to increased screen time? What strategies have you found helpful in managing their screen use and encouraging polite behaviour? I’d love to hear your experiences and tips! Share your thoughts in the comments below.

Give the Gift of Memories: Experiences Over Things

In a world filled with toys and gadgets, it can be refreshing to consider gifting experiences instead of material presents. Experiences create lasting memories, foster deeper connections, and often have a more profound impact than physical items. With my son’s 9th birthday just around the corner, I’ve been reflecting on how to make this milestone truly special. Rather than adding another toy to the collection, I’m leaning towards an experience that he can remember and cherish for years to come. But will he appreciate this? Is it too soon to move from tangible gifts to experiences? What do you think? If you’re also pondering how to give a gift that’s both meaningful and memorable, read on for some inspiring ideas that go beyond the usual presents.

Experience-Based Gift Ideas for Children

1. Adventure Park: A day at an adventure park with zip lines, climbing walls, and obstacle courses can be thrilling and active.
2. Weekend Getaways: Plan a weekend trip to a nearby city, beach, or countryside. These mini-vacations can be a great way to unwind and explore new places together.
3. Cooking Class: A child-friendly cooking class where they can make their own pizza, cookies, or other treats.
4. Sports Event: Tickets to see their favourite sports team or a local game can be a thrilling experience.
5. Outdoor Fun: Plan a day of hiking, a visit to a nature reserve, or a picnic with fun activities.
6. Theme Park: A trip to a theme park for a day of rides and excitement.
7. Creative Workshop: Enrol them in a workshop for art, LEGO building, sewing or robotics—something that matches their interests.
8. Escape Room: A kid-friendly escape room experience can be a fun and challenging adventure.
9. Special Event: Look for upcoming events like a magic show, dinosaur exhibit, or children’s theatre performance.
10. Virtual Reality Experience: If they’re into tech, a VR experience can be an exciting new world to explore.

Tips for Gifting Experiences: Consider the recipient’s interests to tailor a thoughtful and appreciated experience, plan ahead with necessary bookings to avoid disappointment, get creative in presenting the gift with a personalised voucher or detailed itinerary. If you want to include a physical element, consider something related to the experience, like a book about the place you’ll visit or a tool for the activity you’ll do.

By creating lasting memories, these experiences can be cherished for a lifetime, often remaining vivid long after toys have been forgotten. Additionally, experiences often provide opportunities for learning and personal growth, whether through exploring new places, trying new activities, or acquiring new skills. Plus, they help reduce clutter by minimizing the accumulation of material possessions. Choosing experiences over physical gifts can lead to more memorable and fulfilling moments for everyone involved.

What experience-based gift ideas have you tried or are considering for your loved ones? Share your thoughts and suggestions in the comments below!